Passionate about Life

i guess you just need to balance yourself out... t...

2009-11-09T00:23:57.793+08:00

i guess you just need to balance yourself out... then again, balance is always the point which we all miss all the time =P but you sound too hard on yourself to me actually, well, for this post lar ;)

i used to think a lot about what to say, or what to argue, or how to behave in certain conditions when something happens, making too much mental note all the time... to the point I make myself really confused and tired. and compared to you, i wasn't really a nice person even tho i did all that. i do that less often now, but still cannot escape from thinking too much sometimes.

yalor, ppl probably dun care anyway, y bother to think so much...

i personally think that if deep down inside, you are really a nice person, then be a nice person lor. else you'll feel equally tormented one. let's just say each person has own level of assertiveness that we are comfy with, you'll nid to find yours.

don't know if i make sense or not, and my comment is getting too long dy >.< i stop here =P

oh, i'm grace and i've moved my blog again >.< come visit lar, he he he. (psssst, ur book is still with me >.<)

God writing, more content please. Maybe write som...

2009-10-29T08:51:12.888+08:00

God writing, more content please.

Maybe write something about shitty people so that we can learn more...like public enemy..hehe

Yeah, my hamster got 4 babies recently and they ar...

2009-10-29T00:47:37.175+08:00

Yeah, my hamster got 4 babies recently and they are getting big. We have 4 cages here and welcome any new members. :)

Dear Grey Horse, Yes, I see what you mean. Thank ...

2009-10-29T00:43:29.932+08:00

Dear Grey Horse,

Yes, I see what you mean. Thank you.

Those advise that you mentioned at the end of your...

2009-10-19T14:49:36.799+08:00

Those advise that you mentioned at the end of your post, while I do agree with some of them there are those that I feel deserve more justice than the way you have so unfairly painted them. These are however my personal opinions and I do hope that it may help you see things in a different perspective.

You have just indirectly highlighted what type of person you are. You are a status conscious and selfish person or should I say selfish capitalist. Friendship are founded on sincerity and trust. Your version of friendship seems to based on what advantages you can gain from it, in your case success and perhaps some form of help to your success. Further validated by you past antics at during your employment days. In simple terms you desert friends who are of no use to you. Your friendship is purely business and not sincere.

People do not get to choose all the time weather they want to be successful or not, a loser or not. Sometimes situation just doesn't allowed them to do so. You are lucky to be where you are today but that doesn't mean that others are. By prejudicing against them you attempt put yourself one echelon above. You look down upon those that you think does not deserve it. Do you think that because you have a business and more money you are better than them?

If your other half today were to fail and never rise up again, do you still have the integrity to up hold those advise you so valiantly written? Should you then stay away from him? What if your friends are in the dumps? Do you desert them because they are no longer an inspiration, because they complain and are pessimist? Put your self in the shoes of those you look down upon and try to understand them.

Those deluded advises that you deemed are good and should have taken a long time ago does not make you a better person. It just made you common. A self serving selfish materialistic and power hungry business owner. Much like those arrogant jerks you worship last time.

Think about it. Why would you want to be one of them when you can be a better person, someone different.

Hi susan, abe and I also used to have hamsters for...

2009-09-30T23:57:11.265+08:00

Hi susan,
abe and I also used to have hamsters for the past few months. But we have just given it back to the shopkeeper on last sunday. Reason being they multiplied too fast till we did not have time to take care of them. What a pity! However, it was a nice experience to play with them and see the baby hamsters growing. You add oil ler! =)

Awesome!!!

2009-09-12T12:35:45.767+08:00

Awesome!!!

Thanks, Mike

2009-09-06T02:40:58.875+08:00

Thanks, Mike

Thanks, Eugenia

2009-09-06T02:40:27.575+08:00

Thanks, Eugenia

Thanks, Kenji. Thanks, Ness.

2009-09-06T02:39:34.177+08:00

Thanks, Kenji.

Thanks, Ness.

Well said

2009-09-03T02:15:19.909+08:00

Well said

I like the content of your blog so much that I wil...

2009-08-12T12:32:48.468+08:00

I like the content of your blog so much that I will start following it. Quiet an insights of life. Very inspirational. I am an aspiring entrepreneur here who also has a passion for writing.

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susan, cheers.... I like what you wrote,..IF GOD I...

2009-08-06T20:31:35.846+08:00

susan, cheers.... I like what you wrote,..IF GOD IS WITH US NO ONE CAN BE AGAINST US.....THANK YOU LORD..

Good post.

2009-06-06T09:37:11.973+08:00

Good post.

Hi Susan! I loved this article, you explained it ...

2009-03-11T18:00:00.000+08:00

Hi Susan! I loved this article, you explained it all really well! Thanks!

@autumnmusicYou are right to notice that. Caught m...

2009-03-09T23:37:00.000+08:00

@autumnmusic

You are right to notice that. Caught me there, smart gal!

Actually, what triggered me to write post about desire and faith are the people who show me the opposite of them. I did impulsively want to rant and complain about them as it is a pain in the ass sometimes to deal with people who are not confident, wishy-washy, doubtful, complaining....and the list goes on.

But in the end I decided against that because since I advocate positivity, I should focus more on positive side of things, rather than the opposite. Complaining about things and other people put everyone spirit down so I try to express in different ways.

So, as you can see in Point 1 to Point 5, I am putting them as suggestions - particularly to "people who show me the opposite of them" .

thanks susan, for this second post :) i really enj...

2009-03-08T15:21:00.000+08:00

thanks susan, for this second post :) i really enjoyed ur sharing, but hor... you mentioned in the first one:

"I start with Part 1 which is my story and Part 2 which I explain more on desire and faith, especially when people show me the opposite of them."

eee... ur second post seems to be a continuation of ur first post lor, i.e. ur story =D hope you can share on ur encounter with people who either exhibit or lack desires and faith, too ^^

still waiting... and waiting... haha...

2009-03-06T00:07:00.000+08:00

still waiting... and waiting... haha...

Thank you, தங்கத்தமிழன்! All the best to you on yo...

2009-03-05T18:11:00.000+08:00

Thank you, தங்கத்தமிழன்!

All the best to you on your new company.

@autumnmusic,Sorry to keep you waiting but I have ...

2009-03-05T18:08:00.000+08:00

@autumnmusic,
Sorry to keep you waiting but I have not really have time to write this week. Although I have draft the part 2 when I wrote part 1, Part 2 is much harder because I need to prove a point there..:)

Thank you for waiting.....keep waiting for a while, yeah...

@PureGlutton,
Thank you for dropping by my blog too. Hope to see more postings from you. :)

Thanks for dropping by my blog :) I enjoy reading ...

2009-03-05T10:55:00.000+08:00

Thanks for dropping by my blog :) I enjoy reading your posts too.

Hi Susan,As u said, i was searching for a farewell...

2009-02-27T17:25:00.000+08:00

Hi Susan,
As u said, i was searching for a farewell email and (luckily) landed in ur blog. Today is my last day in my present company(Motorola) where im in deputation here and i ll be moving back to my parent company after this. Being the last day, i was not able to spend more time in ur blog page. But ur blog pages were really gud & nice to read. Will come back for more.Continue blogging. Bye. All the best.
P.S: I also have my own blog page but im writing it in my Mother-tongue tamil. Anyhow, if u want to visit; here is the link : http://thangathamizhan.blogspot.com/

I don't think she is serious abt the job at all. I...

2009-02-26T00:39:00.000+08:00

I don't think she is serious abt the job at all. I rmbr, that day was 25th of Dec 2007, the day before i went to Jakarta.Haha

thanks for the sharing! i'm eager to read part 2 a...

2009-02-25T21:36:00.000+08:00

thanks for the sharing! i'm eager to read part 2 and i'm sure you won't keep us waiting too long for it! LOL!

@ching yaw,Yeah, come to think of it - one year ag...

2009-02-25T18:57:00.000+08:00

@ching yaw,
Yeah, come to think of it - one year ago we were discussing the same thing when I shared with you about a friend of mine who took more than 1 month to update her resume to send to my boss, which you also totally agreed with me..haha.

Actually, the story ended that she never did send the resume because apparently, after 1 month, both parties acknowledged that the opportunities had gone by.